Life After Death

Following my accident when I was severely burnt, my last memory was being injected morphine at Staincliffe Hospital, Dewsbury, the place I was born and nearly died; following this I was rushed to Pinderfields Hospital at Wakefield where I was to spend the most painful 13 weeks of my life.

My next memory was awakening and finding me stood in a darkened room and in the far corner was a bed, to which all sorts of electronic equipment were attached beeping away and in the bed seemed to be a person but I just wanted to get away from the place.

Strangely all the pain I had previously suffered was gone like one big nightmare, I remember in my disorientated state somehow leaving the room, into a long deserted corridor, illuminated sparsely with a few night lights.

As I approached the end of the corridor a nurse came out of a nearby staff room, laughing merrily at some joke her and the rest of the staff must have been sharing, as she turned and walked towards me I just froze, however, her eyes showed no acknowledgement of my physical presence as she passed by me.

I called out to her when she was about 15 feet past me but she showed no signs of either seeing me or hearing me, I thought this was a little weird by now, but my instincts told me to find an outside door and get away from this strange place.

After a while travelling through the maze of corridors I found a locked exit, upon trying the door to my amazement I found my hand just passed right through it and to my utter bewilderment I found I could walk right through it, I could feel no warmth or cold, I seemed to myself what I can only describe as a physical point in space that could see and hear but could not interact.

With further astonishment I now found myself perhaps 150 foot up in the air and heading through the night, below I could see the tops of the street lamps and a few cars wondering around, I distinctly remember flying over a railway viaduct and towards the city of Wakefield.

The neon sign over the nightclub called Rooftop Gardens drew me like a magnet being familiar with the place during my many nights out with my friends The Gangster and The Savage One, I must of thought in retrospect that a familiar place would relieve me of all this craziness but I was flying for Gods sake.

I came down to land near the entrance to the club in front of two of the bouncers I remembered from yesteryear I had on many occasions in the past greeted these two individuals however on this occasion they just continued their small talk oblivious to my sudden appearance from the night sky.

I paused to think and reached out with my hand to touch a nearby wall that was adjacent to the clubs entrance but my hand appeared to have no physical substance and just passed into the fabric of the wall.

It was now that the awful truth finally dawned on me… The people unable to see or hear me, The wall, The doors to the hospital, just suppose they were perfectly normal? Just suppose that it was me who had changed? What if for example I had somehow lost my ‘hardness’, my ability to grasp things, even, to make contact with the world – even to be seen?

I mean what is the point in going anywhere if as the final shreds of my rational mind pointed out if you cannot be seen, and what was that mound in that bed in the little hospital room I had left could that have been my physical body?

I didn’t like this line of thought a human being is not separated from his body unless he is dead, then what state was I in now.

It can go through doors without opening them, it can fly like a bird, it does not feel cold or warmth and remarkable these qualities are, they are no good if one cannot be seen. I decided at this point to go back to Pinderfields and see if I could reacquaint myself with my body, surely pain is better than this.

No sooner had this thought occurred to me I found myself moving at incredible speed through the night back to the doors of Pinderfields, it seems in this strange state you travel by thought alone, handy this may be but the novelty soon wears off rapidly.

Now Pinderfields is a big hospital and in my rush to get out of there I had forgotten just where I had left my body (or indeed what was left of it by now)

I just didn’t have a clue which room it was in. I rationalised that it must be somewhere in the burns unit but it was no use asking the doctors or nurses because they couldn’t see me or hear me.

After an extensive search I managed to find the burns unit and by wondering from room to room I finally found the room I had left earlier and there I was lying unconscious, wired up to an whole variety of strange gadgets.

At this point out of pure desperation for something to do, I decided to recite the lord’s prayer something I had learnt many years ago at school.

The very next moment the absolute impossible happened; a tiny pinprick of light at the side of the bed began to grow brighter and brighter, at first not noticing the pin prick of light I thought it was a tiny night light that was the rooms only illumination that was getting brighter.

But then I saw it was coming from beside the white bedside table at the head of the bed, it continued to brighten as I watched, it brightened to such an extent that had it been any ordinary light I would most certainly of been blinded.

The next moment there flooded directly into my mind the words “Stand Up… you are now in the presence of the Son of God”, whereupon out of the light stepped what I could only describe as the most magnificent being I have ever known.

Thankful at last for a little company in this strange situation I joked “That’s it! Just like that… I am with the Son of God… Isn’t there a reception area or something before we meet?”

I felt a presence of Power and pure love that was older than time but yet more modern than anyone I have ever met.

In the first stage of my experience, what I can only refer to as the earthbound state I had lost three of my senses; smell, taste and touch, however in this further stage in the light, time disappeared completely, a bit like in a dream and I was aware of all my thoughts and actions in my life up to the present day as on big whole.

Every moment in my life was recurring before me at one and the same instant as part of some enormous four dimensional sight and sound mural.

I guessed this was my life review.

But emanating from the being projected pure love, up to that point in my life I had come across much laid back always blaming anyone and everyone for the results of my actions

I also saw from a further dimension an observation of my interactions with others from the other persons point.. I also saw parts of the future which was hazy however I distinctly remember being told that a girl I had met but would never marry had an important role in the creation of my son who was very special. I saw all of my educational achievements so far were purely superfluous but it was the way I treated others that was important and I could see the consequence of my lack of interactions with my fellow students at York University (which I had luckily just graduated a month before).

I could see how the other students saw me as weird and very anti social and they tried to avoid me where possible so that they could avoid the negative effect I had on them hence leading to a deeper feeling of depression thus increasing my isolation.

An endless viscous circle that had dominated my life.

I even could see the hurt on my best friend – The Gangsters emotions when he pulled a bird called Cherelle at Rooftop Gardens, but, I had done my best to split them up by pouring a pint of lager on her head and being very rude.

The tapestry of life was in front of me and I could see how my decisions now would effect the future all of my ambitions of being wealthy and having many material possessions was regarded by the being of light with has much distaste as was my lack of enthusiasm for interacting with
my fellow men.

I could see how my life would change and where I had once sought money and possessions I now treasured simply making other peoples lives more pleasurable at the expense of my own wellbeing.

The being of light then turned to me and said via thought dynamics “Michael, What have you done with your life so far?” I replied using my mind “Why didn’t someone tell me this was what life is about?” the being replied “Somebody did nearly 2000 years ago in your linear time – me!”

I suddenly found myself on the move again, this time we didn’t bother about doors it was straight up through the hospital roof, then we flew at incredible speeds across the surface of the earth however there was no wind to slow us and just a few moments later I found myself approaching a city beside a huge expanse of water.

In the city all the streets and offices were unbelievably crowded, and I could see people passing through other people like they wasn’t there.

We walked into a factory and I saw assembly line workers who were putting together lawnmowers enjoying a coffee break while behind them a woman was pleading for a drag of their cigarette as through she wanted it more than anything in the world.

When one of the workers clearly blind and deaf to the women behind him actually took a cigarette out of his packet and began to smoke it, the woman repeatedly snatched at it but, it was as if she was clawing at thin air.

I came to the conclusion that those people must be ghosts, even though they were dead, they remained chained to the material world by the very things they had deemed most important during their lifetimes their jobs, their cigarette smoking their material possessions.

Myself and the being of light moved from city to city visiting endless places he had to show to me, in one house I remember a younger man followed an older man from room to room “I am sorry dad!” he kept saying repeatedly “I did not know it would do this to my mum – I just didn’t understand!”

The older man was carrying a tray filled with tea and toast into a room where a clearly unwell elderly lady was sat up in bed “I AM SORRY” the younger man cried in frustration over and over again but, clearly his agony fell on deaf ears.

“Why is he so sorry?” I enquired to the being of light, referring to the younger mans pleas “He committed the ultimate selfish act” said the being touching his long beard “suicide” he continued with tears welling in the corner of his eyes “and chained to every consequence of their act of cowardice they are well and truly earthbound” he finished but I knew the answer before I asked.

My next visit was back to the night club in Wakefield called Rooftop Gardens where I had visited earlier in my disorientated state, but, without the concept of time earlier and later were meaningless it is a bit like telling someone bind from birth what is like to see.

Inside the nightclub was an impossibly crowded place where I watched ghost alcoholics mingling with living drunks and whenever a drunk lapsed into a drunken stupor a desperately thirsty ghost sprang inside his body so that the two became one.

The living could be distinguished from the ghosts by a faint cocoon of light around him, however when any living being became inebriated their light cocoon faded, enabling one of the many hovering ghosts to take over their body and literally possess the person.

S horrific was the scene that the only words in my mind that could describe this was “hell”

The mingling ghosts with their eyes so set on alcohol desperately clutching at real life beer glasses had blinded themselves to the magnificent being that accompanied me – Indeed the being told me to keep my eyes firmly on him – probably he was aware of my past record.

In this world of thought far beyond space and time (Thought is a more fundamental principle than the illusion of space or time which pale into mere shadows) it can seemingly be either heaven or hell of your own making.

Earthbound ghosts destroyed by hatred, lust and destructive thought patterns find that whatever they think however fleetingly or unwittingly became instantly apparent to all those who was around him and more completely than words could of expressed it and much faster than sound waves could of carried it.

The thought most commonly communicated amongst earthbound spirits was usually selfish thoughts and this by its very act kept the being earthbound, the being it seemed felt only compassion for these unfortunate souls but he knew it was their will not his that kept them there.

I felt like scrooge in The Christmas Carol having this wise being accompany me back to the hospital for the final time, I wanted to start my life again a fresh when I would care far more about other people and not myself.

No longer would money and possessions be my supreme objective but I would live my life with a desire to make other people happy – the old Mad Mick was truly dead and the new one ready for a reincarnation.

We entered the hospital room for the final time and the image of the being and the bed before me faded – the walls that surrounded my little room at Pinderfields became solid again it was early morning and I was informed by a nurse who had come into open the curtains that it was two days since my accident.

The pain was still there but somewhat dulled by the drugs I had been given, It was to be another thirteen weeks before I was released and I had many more strange experiences in there but nothing that could be compared to the one I have shared with you all.

After subsequent research into my favourite subject Physics I have found that with the merging of two theories of the universe Quantum Mechanics and General Relativity it appears that the 3 dimensions of space and one dimension of time is in fact an illusion created by the world of thought.

Spirits who remain earthbound do eventually find that the hatred and envy are the very emotions that keep them there but wouldn’t it be easier to help our fellow human beings while we are alive.

“Lay not up for yourselves treasures on earth” Jesus…

Best 2012 Halloween Costumes for Boys

If you are looking for the best 2012 Halloween costumes for boys, we have some ideas for you to get started. Depending on the age of the child, you are going to most likely want to get some input from them on what they want to be – unless they’re a baby, of course. In all seriousness, involving the child in the process of picking a suitable Halloween costume can go a long way in making sure they have a lot of fun on the big night, which is what it’s all about – not to mention the candy.

  • Spiderman Costumes – The Amazing Spiderman was big this year, and as in years past, you can expect many boys to want to become the wisecracking Spidey. The good news is that there are quite a few great – and relatively cheap – Spiderman costumes available.
  • Batman Costumes – Another Superhero that’s huge again this year is Batman. As with Spiderman, the popularity of this costume means there are going to be a lot of different options for you as a parent. From simple plastic outfits to complex costumes with a separate Batman mask and accessories, there’s something for every budget.
  • Historical Costumes – Not every boy is going to want to use a historical figure for a Halloween costume, but this can be great in many different ways. For one, not a lot of other kids are going to have the same costume most likely if you go with a George Washington, Ben Franklin or some other historic figure – Caesar anyone?
  • Homemade Costumes – If you are on a budget or just like to be creative and spend quality creative time with your children, homemade costumes for Halloween can be a great idea. You just want to make sure you involve the boy in every step of the process so he is happy with the outcome and will want to wear it on Halloween night!
  • Soldier Costumes – This is one that is relatively easy to put together cheaply. A little camo and some other accessories – no guns! – and you can have a great looking solider whether it’s a sailor or someone in the airforce or marines. Camo face paint really puts the final touches on this great costume idea.
  • Fireman Costume – Being a civil servant or first responder like a fireman on Halloween is a lot of fun and may be an indication of a future career path for your little one. There are a lot of great accessories you can get to make your costume really stand out from all the others. Don’t forget the cute fireman’s hat and boots!

After you choose which costume you want, it’s all about saving money. Next, we have some tips to make sure you get the most for your money when buying a boy’s Halloween costume this year.

  • Shop Early – One of the best things you can do is shop early. If you were thinking smart last year, you bought your costumes a day after Halloween when they went on sale. Even if you didn’t do this, the earlier you start shopping – even during the final summer months – the more you are going to be able to look around and find the absolute best price.
  • Shop Online – Speaking of finding the best price, another great idea is to make sure you do most of your shopping online. While there’s nothing more fun than taking a kid (or five) to a Halloween costume shop (sarcasm!), there’s something to be said about shopping for a costume online. It’s easy, safe and convenient – and you can save money too.
  • Read Reviews – Finally, you are going to want to make sure you read reviews of the various costumes before you get out your credit card and make any purchases. There are quite a few places you can read reviews these days, but you should find a website you trust and stick with them and their recommendations for the best Halloween costumes for boys in 2012.

Halloween is all about having fun and being able to dress up and score a lot of candy. Picking out the costume should not be stressful or a headache! The sooner you start shopping for a Halloween costume, the sooner you’re going to be able to relax and just enjoy the holidays.

What It Takes to Save Money on Car Insurance

You can save money on car insurance and you can do so without going to extraordinary lengths to do so. Insurance costs continue to rise, but you can hold these increases in check by employing several proven strategies that are designed to save you money.

Driving Record

Your auto insurer is likely already familiar with your driving record and has a record of your driving history going back several years. Do not assume that this information is complete or accurate. If you have a flawless driving record, your insurer will typically reward you with a discount of at least 10 percent. Contact your insurer to ensure that your clean driving record is reflected in your current rates.

Insurance Savings

You can enjoy additional insurance savings if you insure at least two vehicles with the same insurance company. Such multi-policy plans result in discounts that are applied to your entire policy. The more cars insured, the deeper your discounts.

You can also realize savings by bundling your insurance plans. For instance, if you own a home or rent an apartment, or have some other insurance plan, your insurer will thank you for you business by offering you a discount on a bundled plan. Ask your insurance represent about discounts for multiple insurance plans or policies.

Life Changes

If you were single last year and are married this year, certain life changes can impact your insurance rates. Let your insurer know about your current marital status if different from last year.

You can also receive discounts if you are a college graduate or if your high school children are excellent students. Discounts for customer loyalty are also given.

Your Information

If you have moved within the past year or have had made some other change such as a reduction of driving points for completing a driver awareness program, then your rates could be adjusted downward. Your credit score may have an effect on what you pay too — the higher your credit score, the lower your insurance rate. The opposite is true too.

Vehicle Considerations

The information your insurer has about your car should be accurate too. Typically, your agent will ask for the vehicle identification number or VIN, a step that will offer detailed information about your car including engine displacement, transmission and trim level. However, if you had aftermarket enhancements completed, including the addition of a security system, your insurer probably is not aware of this. Contact your insurer and review your car details to ensure that it accurately reflects what you are driving.

Things I Have Learnt About Commercial Real Estate Prospecting

In commercial real estate today, the prospecting model that you develop will make or break your career. Far too many agents overlook the requirement to develop a prospecting model as part of their business day and business week.

It takes about three months to establish and grow your contact base from consistent prospecting. It takes about the same time to lose momentum in both listings and commissions.

Most people are entering the commercial real estate industry understand the need to prospect and cold call. Unfortunately most of those people will reluctantly undertake the process and avoid it at every opportunity. Over time that will have significant impact on their income and market share.

Here are some ideas to help you with your commercial real estate prospecting model. You can use a variety of these strategies and add some of your own based on your local area.

  1. Understand where your market is located. Determine exactly where your business will be coming from. That will involve both a geographical area, and or property type. You can then focus your efforts into the region and talk to the right people.
  2. Know who you should talk to. When it comes to talking to business proprietors and property investors, the right people with the correct levels of decision or control should really be the focus of your attention. The business community will offer great opportunity to you providing you prospect into it every day. You will find so many leads relating to tenancies, rentals, sales, and purchases. Asking the right questions is the key to the process.
  3. Have something worthwhile to say. The people that we talk to have limited time and will initially give us little of their attention. For this reason, the first initial point of contact has to be relevant and to the point. This says that you should have something worthwhile to say that is of interest to the prospect. You may specialize in sales, leasing, or property management. Your opening conversation should center on one or more of those issues and how it may be of some use to the prospect.
  4. Create supporting systems as part of your contact call process. It is a fact that we should be talking to many people every day. The only way you can effectively do this is to have some form of database and follow-up system. It is a personal process that cannot be delegated to administrative staff. In only that way will you achieve ownership and accuracy of the data.
  5. Take action every day. Systemized action will get you further into your market so that you can assess results when it comes to meetings, listings, and commissions. The prospecting process should feature as one of the first items in your diary every day.
  6. Return to the same people as part of a contact plan. Over a 90 day period you should be returning to the right people that have some relevance to your property market and or market share. It is quite likely that it will take three or four telephone calls to the right person before you will get a meeting. Consistency is the key to the process.
  7. Have something relevant to talk about and some information that the prospect requires. A successful contact process will normally involve relevant information that is up to date relating to the local property market. You can create a newsletter as part of that process.

The prospecting process is a very specific business process. When you treat it with respect, your commercial real estate market can be much stronger with both listings and commissions.

Age Appropriate and Attractive Ideas For Aging Gracefully

Maturity is a badge of honor to be respected with good taste. There simply comes a time when all the extra bling and fabulousness of fashion, hair and makeup is best toned down. When you were a younger Alluring, Innovative or Dramatic woman, those items of “look at me, I’m au currant” stood for something. Status, hipness, a woman in the moment who’s up on the trend. But wisdom carries with it a confidence and sophistication that allows you to do less and achieve more. A maturing face and figure carries a patina of wisdom. A statement in and of itself, it doesn’t require bright lips, over the top earrings or a crazy hip belt to bring it forward. It stands there, gently making its own beautiful statement. Less is simply more as we age. To accentuate your second act best:

o    Avoid drawing attention to your mouth with bright or dark lips.
o    Avoid drawing attention to aging eyelids with frosted shadow.
o    Avoid drawing attention to aging hands with bright nail polish and/or a multitude of attention-grabbing rings.
o    Draw the eye to your face with neckline interest and earrings.
o    When in doubt leave it out.

The Importance of Being Current 

Keeping current is undoubtedly a constant and not inexpensive challenge. With all the technology with which we are bombarded, however, we still have the old standby; the monthly magazine. Magazine subscriptions are one of the most effective ways of getting information you can absorb on your downtime. The whole experience of sitting down with and perusing a magazine that inspires is a ritual that endures. Magazines are the great equalizer. No matter where you live in the country you have the same access to fashion, fitness and beauty that the most upscale, in-the-know New York socialite has, because she gets her “W” magazine the same time you do. When “O” comes out, you’re right there with all of Oprah’s associates on the hottest, latest and most suitable fashion, food, fun and inspiration you need that month. You just go to your mailbox, Oprah is waiting for you, and it’s your turn to dream. 

What Were We Thinking?

We’ve all done it. Looked back at those embarrassing fashion photos and wondered, “What was I thinking?” I look back at my pinstriped jeans, permed hair and parachute pants and think “Hmmmm.” The more extreme trend, the more risk of later embarrassment. We may forgive the young. But it’s not so easy to forgive a second actor in a leather mini.

A woman in Act Two need never wear:

1.     A micro mini
2.     Combat boots with formal wear
3.     White hose
4.     Frosted eye shadow
5.     Chunky platforms
6.     Dark brown lipstick
7.     Butterfly barrettes
8.     Extreme low-rise jeans
9.     Visible underwear
10.   A spiral perm

What’s Age Appropriate Now?

In our Second Act it becomes difficult to find the balance between matronly and modern. Looking current and youthful should not translate into “mutton dressed as lamb.” I met a woman recently whose long, blonde, permed hair was pulled up on one side and suspended with a comb. For height she created gravity defying bangs with a curling iron and “Spritz Forte.” She wore a fitted navy knit tank, tight tapered pale denim jeans and a crocheted sparkly baby blue shawl tied around her hips. She was 48. 

I liked her and enjoyed hearing her tales of woe in raising teenagers. But as I listened I was continually distracted by her image. It just wasn’t working in her favor. The reason it didn’t work was because it was expressing only a part of this woman. I obviously knew who she had been, but as she talked, the more interesting experienced and attractive parts were hidden behind a fa├žade of fear of aging. Yes, she was attractive and sexy but she was also a 48-year-old single mother of teenagers who had quite a bit of sun damage, an advancing derriere, tan lines across her back and thinning hair. The look did not make her look younger; it made her look vulnerable and insecure. Our image must reflect who we’ve become, not who we were. That is age appropriate. 

How To Make Money With A Paid Online Auction

Selling your “junk” to someone who considers it “gold” can benefit a buyer who has something they are in need of, and a seller who has more money in his pocket as a result of the transaction.

That’s why using an online auction is something both buyers and sellers can benefit from. The Internet is an invaluable tool in today’s world for both personal and professional interactions. Online auctions takes it to the next level by creating an online marketplace. Everything from a computer auction to a book auction can be found.

While some online auction sites are free, there are advantages to using a paid online auction site. While getting something for free is always nice, as the saying goes – is anything really free?

That’s why putting money upfront in the form of a membership cost or paying a percentage on items sold is probably not such a bad thing when using a paid online auction. Consider these advantages:

* An auction site like EBay offers integration with Auctiva which can often provide unlimited space for photographs and descriptions of items, thus increasing the chances of selling your products.

* Using a paid site is also wise because most large online auction sites offer dispute resolution and other services to keep both sellers and buyers happy (kind of like an online manager for complaints).

* Sites like EBay and Amazon auctions are ones with a reputation for good business; or at least they want to have a good name if they hope to stay in operation.

These sites want to do everything possible to keep sellers happy because eBay is a known name for online auctions and the first thought of many considering an online purchase. They also want to keep buyers happy so they will continue to purchase on EBay, therefore resulting in sellers continuing to do business.

The term is known as good business. It’s also called good public relations and is essential for these sites to flourish.

But why even use an online auction in the first place? As noted earlier, a paid online auction brings people together via the Internet in an online marketplace. But while both parties would typically be in the same location, sites like EBay may involve parties thousands of miles apart. Someone in Birmingham, Alabama, might find themselves buying a computer from a seller in Birmingham, England.

Also, unlike a traditional marketplace where selection of items is limited, an online auction may include everything from a Mickey Mouse watch or life-saving medical equipment, to coffee cakes and automobiles. You can even do an electronic book auction online.

From the perspective of a seller, a paid online auction not only helps them with supplemental or full income, but is also be a means of getting rid of items they are no longer using. In fact, they might find it to be a perfect business home income online opportunity. From the buyer’s standpoint, it helps in not having to search to the ends of the earth for items they need and from being frustrated by not finding the perfect gift for someone.

Working with an auction site online guarantees a seller’s customer base is no longer limited only to customers across town. For buyers it is the end of fumbling through a phone book or driving around to find what they need. Instead, a paid auction site can help guarantee both sellers and buyers are happy with only the click of a mouse.

Lead Generation Strategies in Commercial Real Estate Today

When it comes to your career in commercial real estate, your momentum and success will be significantly improved when you have a lead generation model. Far too many agents struggle with the process of servicing the business that they create and then forget about the need for ongoing lead generation.

Exactly who are your clients and prospects? It is an interesting question and it requires a specific your answer. When you know the answer and can see where these people are, you can start to implement your lead generation plan.

So to get things moving ahead, you need a lead generation model that you can implement on a daily basis. This is a personal process and involves a time commitment in your diary. There is no other way to handle the process.

A Crocodile Story

I was recently in Darwin in the Northern Territory talking to some Commercial Agents. Within the team there were some top performers and some very ordinary salespeople. The ratio was 15% to 85%. I think you know how the ratio was biased!

We were talking about the market, and I chose to use a local fact to tell a story. I chose the ‘crocodile story’. As many people will know, crocodiles are prolific in and about Darwin. It is not safe to swim in the sea or the rivers.

The lead generation model is like a crocodile that is continually on the hunt for food in the lagoon or ocean. Failure to find food means that they become weak and eventually will be dominated by other crocodiles in the same area. Over time the weak crocodile will die and be eaten by others.

Unfortunately, the same analogy applies in commercial real estate. Your competitors will take over your listings and your prospects if you do not constantly farm and generate leads. You must build your market.

Relieve the Pressure

You can improve your business momentum, listings, and commissions through a lead generation model. Here are the main rules to the process:

  1. Lead generation requires at least 2 or 3 hours each working day. To make the process a habit, it is best to select the same daily time frame and stick to it. You will find that others within the office may want to change your diary and activities frequently. Develop a habit of good time management and refuse the pressures applied by others.
  2. Good intentions and focus will usually help most salespeople get started with the lead generation model. Within a very short period of time however they see that the process requires a new skill set and mindset. The skills set required are most particularly your voice and your dialogue. Your mindset required is that of enquiring and questioning rather than pitching. Not everybody you talk to should be considered a prospect until you have qualified them. Should not meet with anyone until such time as you have defined an established need and interest.
  3. The parts of the system that you will need to develop start with the necessary daily research, and then flow through to cold calling, meeting people, and maintaining your database. In effect, you are marketing yourself. Without this process, the prospects and the opportunities in the market will not reach you.
  4. The lead generation model should include a strategy of constant contact. That will be the process of reaching through to and touching the prospects that are of some value to you. The process should occur at least once every 90 days. If there is an identified need, you should be talking to the people more frequently.

This process is simple to understand and yet difficult to implement. That is because all the old habits and mindsets that you have developed over the years need to be changed. The first three or four weeks of your lead generation model will be challenging given that new habits are being developed. You must believe in the process and stick with the actions involved.

Payday Lenders – The History of Payday Loan and How it Effects Instant Approval – Part I

Here is how to avoid application disapproval and get instant cash credited into your account via payday loan. You can get up to $1500 dollars instantly without credit check, collateral or faxing of paper documents. All you need to get instant approval for cash advance is to know the nitty-gritty of payday loan and how it affects your loan application approval and disapproval.

Most people want to take advantage of payday service because they know that it is easy to access but they don’t know the disadvantages involved in payday services. Payday loan, no doubt it is the fastest kind of loan service that gives borrowers instant cash to meet their very urgent needs. But some people take payday loan for luxuries without knowing that payday package is for unavoidable needs especially those needs that can not wait till payday and it is also initiated to help people in emergency.

If you want to take advantage of payday facility, you have to count the cost before you apply. You have to understand that payday is a short term loan and its duration is usually between 15 to 31 days. Payday loan is a high interest loan because it is a non secured loan most time. Payday lenders most times do not require borrowers to present collateral or faxing of paper document and do not perform credit check to secure the lender. Because of the high risk payday lenders are exposed to, lender charge higher interest rate compare to other loan services. So if you want to take advantage of this loan service, you need to count the cost and make sure it is what you need before you apply.

You May Be Statistically At Risk For A Payday Loan

Recently, there has been a lot of talk about percentiles. With the presidential election on the horizon, Americans are being flooded with percentages and many are drowning in confusion. Payday loan lenders have been inundated with borrowers who are trying to stay on top of their bills. A deluge of mass media has emerged to cover the politic elections, surfacing statistical claims about economic differences among the American population and submerging any consistent sense of where one fits into the fiscal scheme of things.

These statistics raise questions that come with a lot of political baggage: Am I one of Occupation Wall Street’s 99 %? Am I one of Mitt Romney’s 47% who rely on federal benefits? And, if so, is this a bad thing?

These ‘factual’ numbers, which are meant to act as clear, logical backing for political campaigns, are leaving many Americans mystified, obscuring political agendas behind a silk-screen of percentages.

Let’s face it; politicians employ these statistics, which may or may not be whole truths, to inspire voters to stand up for a cause–their cause. Among the aforementioned percentages, there is one common denominator: they all target or discuss an audience of low income families. In some cases, these statistics are used to draw attention to discrepancies between high and low income families, while others demonize those in the low income demographic as moochers and/or freeloaders.

Yet, another statistic that has not been addressed in the campaigns but that directly relates to low income families is the number of households in this demographic that utilize payday loan services. A PEW survey recently exposed that 72 % of payday loan borrowers have a combined family income of less than $40,000 per year. Clearly, those in lower income demographics are more inclined to borrow these high interest loans, which they are required to pay off at their own expense.

It is easy to comprehend the reasons that those in low income families are more inclined to borrow–utility bills need to be paid, children need to be fed and clothed, cars need to be in working order and fueled up. This becomes even clearer when considering that most payday loans are taken out to accommodate recurrent, necessary life expenses. Evidently, many low income American families are treading water, relying on temporary safety rafts, like payday loan lenders, to stay afloat, and getting closer and closer to a tidal wave of unavoidable debt.

This raises the questions: do the aforementioned political percentages and statistics accurately represent low income families who are relying on payday loans?

To answer the question, statistics rarely speak for themselves. Yes, over 40 % of Americans rely on federal benefits, but it is important to note that this percentage is largely made up of impoverished families, mothers with young children, and senior citizens. Without such services, more people from these demographics would be pushed to rely on payday loans and cash advances, furthering their debt and making them more susceptible to extreme financial circumstances, such as bankruptcy, which ultimately costs tax payers a great deal of money. It is important to note, additionally, that a person must be employed to take out a payday loan, challenging the idea that the low income families and individuals who rely on such services are freeloaders.

In short, not only is the onslaught of political statistics confusing, it is often unreliable, as it only presents a partial picture of the current circumstances of low income American families–a demographic which makes up a significant portion of the American population.

What Should You Ask Your Contractor About Your Bathroom Remodel?

One of the best ways to make a noticeable change in your entire home is to remodel one or more of your bathrooms. Although the process may seem a little intimidating at first, you can make everything go as smoothly as possible by asking the right questions before you get started. If you want to avoid unnecessary interruptions and confusions throughout the process, you will to make a list of important points to discuss with your contractor before they even start the job. Here are a few things that you should talk about:

What Type of Remodel Do you Want?

Before you even pick up the phone to start shopping for a contractor, think about what type of remodel that you want. A simple remodel can consist of a new coat of paint and new fixtures, while a complete bathroom overhaul is much more extensive. Decide how extensive you want your remodel to be, determine your budget and then call your contractor to talk about the specifics. They will be able to help guide you through the process from there.

How Much Will It Cost?

While this is a very important aspect of conducting a remodel, you should always make sure to balance cost with the quality of your contractor. You will want to choose someone who is reliable, skilled and has extensive experience working with bathroom remodels. That being said, make sure that you talk with your chosen bathroom remodeling company about the total cost of the project. They should be able to provide you with at least a very close estimate to what the total cost should be. Some will even provide you with a firm bid after doing a full assessment. Always be up front with how much you have to spend on any given project, so that you can be on the same page from start to finish.

How Long Will It Take?

In addition to a cost estimate, you should also ask your builder for a time estimate. While a simple bathroom remodel could take just a few hours, a total overhaul could take several weeks. Because the bathroom is a very important room in your home, you will want to have a fairly clear idea of how long it will be until you can use it again. After you have an idea of how long it will take, come up with a plan to make sharing the other bathroom or bathrooms in your home much easier while you remodel.

In the end, completing a hassle free bathroom remodel relies on constant, clear and honest communication from both you and your contractor. To make sure that you are getting what you want, at a price within your budget, you must communicate these needs to them. Because your bathroom is such an important room in your home, you can’t afford to be vague, unsure or silent about any of the aspects of the remodel. If you follow these tips, and work closely with your chosen remodeling expert, you can expect a bathroom remodel that meets your expectations from start to finish.